I will not be kept in the dark any longer. I will have my answer because I am important too and I deserve to make informed decisions about my life and my future. I will involve anyone and everyone in getting my answer, I no longer care about his reactions to anything. Today is where it stops, I am SICK of living like this and I fully intend to find out exactly what is going on. I think I've cried for the entire 6 hours since this happened. I am absolutely devastated, hurt, rejected and upset.
#Narcissism and compulsive lying full
He is full of sh*t and he is lying and hiding something. I know exactly where I am going to start looking as well.
He is hiding something and I think I know exactly what it is - and today, I will find out exactly what it is. I thought he'd be happy and proud to have his wife on his facebook page, but no, he went mental. He also previously removed all photos of me (and me and him together) from his facebook page - this was a while back. He then deactivated his entire facebook page - ALL because I added him as a friend!! WHAT THE F? I cannot BELIEVE this reaction. I called him back about 6 times but he would not answer the phone and has not spoken to me since - this was about 6 hours ago. Today, I added him to my facebook, when we were on the phone I mentioned it in passing and said 'accept me when you get a chance' - he went MAD! Started going off saying "why are you adding me to facebook? I will never accept you to facebook, I promise I will never add you" I asked why, he said "we live together, what's the point?" - I said "so, we're not always together and almost every one has their partner as a friend" he shouted "don't compare me to others, I will never add you" - I said "why?" and he just hung up on me. Posts: 180 Joined: Sun 4:53 am Local time: Tue 12:19 pm Blog: View Blog (0) But it can also be a tool to set someone up or to simply entertain the N. After all, how can you prove he isn't suffering? In your case, I think he lies about his pain and ailments. Almost like some endorphins are released or something every time I create some fantasy utopia that convinces my mom to stop her nonsense. To me, it actually feels good to do the lie game.
I feel crazy because my reaction was this." That's part of what makes the victim feel crazy. is an N I would be shocked if he wasn't lying all the time. The fragile ego is always on guard against attack. The N has a desire to avoid responsibility and blame. "our friend's carpet was green so it hid the grass stain." when the carpet was really white. Things you wouldn't even think are worth lying about we do. I've worked hard over the years like an addict to stop all forms of lying, however I still lie around my mother. but I have NPD traits - I believe started as a defense mechanism against my NPD mom.Īnyway, the lying is something very natural. I don't know a lot about the lying side of NPD and would really like to understand it more.
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